bɜrn ˈbrɪdʒɪz
Relationships
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intermediate
- Literally:
- To set fire to bridges behind you
What does "burn bridges" mean?
- To destroy relationships or opportunities permanently
- To act in ways that prevent any return or reconciliation
Examples
- Don't burn bridges when you leave a job—you might need references.
- He burned his bridges by insulting the entire management team.
- Think carefully before burning bridges with family.
Origin
Military strategy dating to ancient times—armies would burn bridges after crossing to prevent retreat and show commitment. Julius Caesar famously burned his boats. The phrase became common in the 19th century.
How to use it
Usually used as a warning against damaging relationships unnecessarily. 'Don't burn your bridges' is common advice.
Similar expressions
sever ties
close doors
point of no return
Opposites
keep options open
maintain relationships
Related idioms
- break the ice
To initiate conversation in an awkward social situation
- see eye to eye
To agree with someone completely
- head over heels
Completely and deeply in love
- pull someone's leg
To tease or joke with someone
- cut someone some slack
To be less strict or demanding with someone
- tie the knot
To get married
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